It's more that what those who I wronged went through needs to be at the center of any discussion. My guilt is what it is because I took away their voice. Any comfort or reassurance for me takes away from that, and how can that possibly be good?
...I always fail entirely at explaining this well. But I feel like, generally, the goal of getting me to feel better is a bad one and so the discussion is doomed before it begins. The only time I've felt like there was any good resolution is when Wukong agreed to train me to prevent what I did from happening again. At least that was productive. Making me feel better is not productive, and a pointless effort besides.
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Re: Voice - UN: KingofHell
Date: Jun. 27th, 2024 05:27 pm (UTC)...I always fail entirely at explaining this well. But I feel like, generally, the goal of getting me to feel better is a bad one and so the discussion is doomed before it begins. The only time I've felt like there was any good resolution is when Wukong agreed to train me to prevent what I did from happening again. At least that was productive. Making me feel better is not productive, and a pointless effort besides.