"You're welcome," MK will hug her if she cries. Sometimes just crying your heart out can help you feel better. Even if it gives you a headache, hiccups, and the runniest nose ever.
"Well the bar is going well. I've been putting a lot of work into it and the apartment above it. Macaque and I broke up for a day a bit ago. We're already back together. It was because I messed up but it's alright now. I got another new boyfriend who is a talking cat boy named Dick. He's really fun. And that's about it? Yeah. That's about it."
She's holding it back. She's done enough whining and crying by her estimation.
"Oh yeah? What kind of work are you doing?"
She blinks at the breakup line. "What makes you so sure it was your fault that you broke up? And good for you, about the cat boy. I can imagine the fur is fun to pet."
"Making sure to expand it and I'm looking to add more entertainment to the bar. And upstairs, I'm making rooms for each of my mates and my boyfriend. So they have their own space in my apartment and they can spend the night whenever they want," MK answers.
"I asked someone out without thinking of how it would make Macaque feel. I should have asked first but we did talk it out and only broke up for a day. I didn't think about it really. I mean, part of it is I didn't really know it would be an issue."
"Yeah? Those rooms sound fun. Like a special gift for each of them." She knows the power of having a special space for your loved ones.
"If you didn't have a habit of asking before you went out with people, and you had no idea it would be an issue, you should probably give yourself a break on it. Sometimes things just happen that put us at odds with what the people we love want, and sometimes we just deal with it as best we can in the moment. It sounds like everything is fixed now, so..."
"That's what I was thinking too when I made them." MK wants that. And he is sure it's going to feel good when they are all done.
"That makes sense. It does. My brain keeps telling me though I should have thought of it. I'll try to give me a break. Still feels like I stepped in it. But I know better now. I know better for next time."
"I think you should give you a break. It was an honest mistake, that happens. Having multiple partners is all about communication and boy is it easier said than done sometimes."
"I have a hard time telling people about my heritage and history until I know them pretty well, that's all. I don't think I could go talk to a stranger and be honest."
"And I'm used to a fair bit of judgement for being what I am. It's something I like to trust people before I reveal it. And I'd pretty much have to disclose that right away in therapy."
"No offense intended to Lucifer. He's great, Charlie's great, their idea is wonderful and I'm sure it helps a lot of people. I just think I need a different kind of help."
"I think that's valid. What help looks like for everyone is different. So it's about finding the one or ones that works for you. And you got me here to help anyway I can."
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Date: Mar. 13th, 2025 05:03 pm (UTC)Re: Action
Date: Mar. 13th, 2025 08:31 pm (UTC)"I haven't been a very good friend lately. So... how are things with you?"
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Date: Mar. 16th, 2025 03:44 am (UTC)"Well the bar is going well. I've been putting a lot of work into it and the apartment above it. Macaque and I broke up for a day a bit ago. We're already back together. It was because I messed up but it's alright now. I got another new boyfriend who is a talking cat boy named Dick. He's really fun. And that's about it? Yeah. That's about it."
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Date: Mar. 19th, 2025 09:02 pm (UTC)"Oh yeah? What kind of work are you doing?"
She blinks at the breakup line. "What makes you so sure it was your fault that you broke up? And good for you, about the cat boy. I can imagine the fur is fun to pet."
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Date: Mar. 23rd, 2025 08:32 pm (UTC)"I asked someone out without thinking of how it would make Macaque feel. I should have asked first but we did talk it out and only broke up for a day. I didn't think about it really. I mean, part of it is I didn't really know it would be an issue."
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Date: Mar. 23rd, 2025 08:38 pm (UTC)"If you didn't have a habit of asking before you went out with people, and you had no idea it would be an issue, you should probably give yourself a break on it. Sometimes things just happen that put us at odds with what the people we love want, and sometimes we just deal with it as best we can in the moment. It sounds like everything is fixed now, so..."
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Date: Mar. 28th, 2025 02:47 am (UTC)"That makes sense. It does. My brain keeps telling me though I should have thought of it. I'll try to give me a break. Still feels like I stepped in it. But I know better now. I know better for next time."
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Date: Apr. 8th, 2025 09:03 pm (UTC)Therapy...? Saya doesn't touch that, because she finds that whole thought to be overwhelming. Telling a stranger all your trauma? Sounds hard.
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Date: Apr. 9th, 2025 03:43 pm (UTC)"Not a fan of therapy?"
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Date: May. 6th, 2025 03:01 am (UTC)Re: Action
Date: May. 14th, 2025 02:12 pm (UTC)"No offense intended to Lucifer. He's great, Charlie's great, their idea is wonderful and I'm sure it helps a lot of people. I just think I need a different kind of help."
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