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sangreine

It's not lying, it's just that you have a lot of care for the people around you, platonic or romantic.

There might not be anything for it but to try dating and see how it goes? If nothing else you know they will agree not to take it too far until you're ready, and if you decide just to be friends they'll be fine with that. Having comfort goes quite a long way, I found, when it comes to these matters. If it hadn't worked out romantically with my husband I have zero doubt that we'd have gone back to being close friends who sleep together with no issue.

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abnormalizes

Yeah - yeah, they'd be considerate. I can. I can try? It's not like anything terrible will happen if we try and it doesn't work. There's no danger.

[She feels safe with these people. That matters more than anything else.]</small. Thanks, Saya.

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sangreine

I'm sure that it would mean a lot to them if you'd try and see how it goes, with the caveat that you have no promises.

Sure, no problem. I'm glad I could help.

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abnormalizes

I’m going to try. I will try. I can do it.

Let me know if I can ever return the favor.

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sangreine

I will. Most of the stuff I need advice with is pretty specialized and intense though. I'm not sure I'd be able to take good advice even if it was given to me, unfortunately.