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[retirementsnotsopeachy]

Because you're my friend. You were an easy target to hurt me with. And...he seemed to have problems with you being a vampire.

I don't know if that was low-hanging fruit, or he really has that issue, but the main thing was you accepting me without expecting me to change.

[sangreine]

[ Have problems with her being a-- ]

I guess that all makes sense, I'm an outsider after all. [ Apparently Macaque knows MK enough to not make it a thing there, and she couldn't begin to guess about the deal with Red Son. ]

So, a few things.

First, I don't care what he thinks about me accepting you as you are, it's not his business. Second, I'm sorry that was used to hurt you, that's not okay. I don't care what history you have.

And third, I can understand someone having a problem with vampires as a matter of principle, however distasteful I find that. He might just be worried about you and is showing it in really awful ways.

[ She scoots over so she can give him a hug. Or lay on him. Or both. ]

Whatever his reasons, you didn't deserve that. And I know that from him it probably cut deep.

[retirementsnotsopeachy]

I know it doesn't bother you, or even affect you that much. But I figured you should know in case it comes up when you're around.

[He returns the hug, wrapping his arms around her so they can lay comfortably.]

One of the things that really cut was him pushing the blame for MK's heartbreak on you, especially when it turns out he slept with Red Son and let him mark him...just to twist the knife.

But...that's jumping ahead a little.

[sangreine]

[ Cuddles will continue until morale improves. She needs them just as much, albeit not about this. ]

It bothers me that you're bothered, that's all I need to know.

[ She waits though, since it seems there's an order here and she doesn't want to plow over whatever he needs to say ]

[retirementsnotsopeachy]

Thanks, Saya.

[He's quiet for a moment, just collecting his thoughts.]

He basically called me out on either running from, or killing all of my problems, including disappearing after everything with DBK. And...when I said I had been tired after losing everything, he told me that I was acting like a martyr because I got to keep my life. And he left.

[sangreine]

[ She strokes his fur while he lets it out. It sounds like a lot of very old arguments got suddenly revived. ]

It sounds like he's picking out the most tender spots and attacking those. Your making new friends, sealing the Demon Bull King, all that. I know how I'd react if someone started poking the equivalent spots on me. [ It's enough to make her feel protective, which might be evident in her tone. ]

And... he was the last person you really were open with, yes? I know how hard you worked to be able to open yourself up again. So I can see why this is bringing up a lot.

[ A gentle squeeze ]

[retirementsnotsopeachy]

Yeah, he was.

[Poking, the last person he was really open with. The person he had cared the most about for the longest time.]

Then it was time to go after the gang, and Macaque was basically flaunting what he was doing with Red Son...after saying so many horrible things around you...and basically making me feel like my loss didn't matter...and...I thought we had been making progress before that. Before here.

And we started fighting when the job was done. Like we were telling two different stories. I was talking about him leaving me behind for more than 500 years. He was talking about what happened when I chose to seriously injure him to protect my new friends.

And I don't know if he meant to, it didn't matter in the moment...Red Son took his side. And everything went into no context theater after that.

[sangreine]

[ She can see why Macaque and Red Son get along so well, they both have a Wukong Can't Do Anything Right mental filter. ]

[ (Also, how did Macaque even know that Saya said she accepts Wukong as he is? Did Red Son tell him? If so she'd be furious, but she tucks it away for now.) ]

I have a couple of questions, but I want to let you get everything out first.

[ She nuzzles her way into whatever area is most accessible. Purring slightly, an attempt at comfort. ]

[retirementsnotsopeachy]

[He actually tilts his head so she can nuzzle his chin.]

The last thing I remember doing was calling him out on why he has anything to do about me given the message he clearly sent the last time he came around.

Then Red Son said I was going into extremes.

I think that's when I lost it. Everything was just feelings and faces after that.

Macaque turned up here after that. We talked a little. He apologized. I apologized. I asked us to put off any in-depth talks so I don't ruin it because I don't feel in control of myself for it yet.

[sangreine]

[ Chin nuzzles it is, then. And more gentle squeezes. (She honestly has no idea what's gotten into Red Son, he should have stayed out of that.) ]

Did he agree to keep it off your plate until you're ready? [ Or does she need to go turn Macaque into a pelt, cause she will. ]

[retirementsnotsopeachy]

[He chirps and relaxes.]

He did. He actually thought I was asking him to leave. But neither of us really wanted it.

[sangreine]

He definitely wanted to stay. Or he'd have just gone.

[ Saya might be neck-deep in her own grief right now but she still is who she is, she's quite confident about that. ]

I'm going to ask this, and it's okay if you don't have an answer. You never have to push yourself beyond what you're comfortable with for me, okay?

Do you still love him?

[retirementsnotsopeachy]

That's a good question. There's a lot of pain there. But it's not like I think I'm completely innocent.

[He rests his chin on her head.]

I know I miss us being together though.

[sangreine]

[ In her mind that's basically a yes. ]

I can see why he'd argue with you about your mutual past. But it strikes me that bringing me up is a total outlier there. I mean, where did that come from? Why would he make a point to insult someone he doesn't even know and be so bothered about my accepting you?

The only answer I can figure is that he thinks you're moving on without him and it hurts him. I know the way he reacted wasn't kind, or fair, or reasonable. But trust me that nothing inspires irrationality like jealousy.

And he went to see you. Didn't want to leave.

He misses you, too.

[retirementsnotsopeachy]

That's...easier to believe now.

But it's almost funny since I was always pretty sure he moved on first.

[sangreine]

Because he didn't go back after you fought? [ She's taking a guess. ]

That could be a lot of things, including stubbornness if he's prone to that. Or that he didn't know how to broach the subject. Or that he didn't want to get hurt again.

But, another thing to trust me on, just because there's distance, or even active arguing, doesn't mean there's less love. My ex and I fought like cats and dogs sometimes. Part of it was me being unreasonable because I thought I was a replacement for someone else, actually, sort of the reverse of how he might think he's been replaced by someone who doesn't want you to change.

I'm not saying you need to roll over and take shoddy treatment, goodness knows I would never want you hurt. I am saying that when you love someone, the simplest things can be like pulling teeth.

[ She draws a shaky breath. ] One of my partners, we couldn't see our feelings for each other until we got in a mindshare. And we got along stunningly well, never had a single argument that wasn't caused by mind control. People have blind spots. Especially about things they fear might be true.

--I just want you to be happy. And it seems like making things work there would maybe do that.

[retirementsnotsopeachy]

Yeah, I mean...I don't blame him for not coming back, but it still feels like a few centuries is a long time to be stubborn if you still care.

And some things happened once I was freed that I'm not really up for talking about right now...and I dunno, I just...I thought we were working toward that before we got here.

[He holds her a little tighter.]

He did ask if I thought it was too late the other day...

[sangreine]

[ Saya shifts to press a light kiss beneath his chin. ]

Assumptions are the death of happiness when it comes to emotions. When we try to rationalize what people do with their hurt feelings in the harsh light of day, it often doesn't work out. You won't really know unless you talk to him and he's willing to tell you honestly.

--Which I'm not trying to press you into. I promise.

[ Hm? That's certainly something. ]

I'm guessing you don't know if it's too late or not. Probably he doesn't either.

But no one says that unless they're hoping, with at least some part of themselves, that there's a chance.

And, speaking solely for myself, you're well worth fighting for. Even has long and hard as the two of you have fought.

[retirementsnotsopeachy]

...you're biased and I love you for it. Because I know I could be the most annoyingly drunk jackass you ever knew and you'd chew me out for it and then kiss me anyway.

[But it still means the world to hear and he smiles, starting to purr as his tail wraps around her arm.]

But speaking of people being them, that is another thing I needed to talk to you about. You.

[sangreine]

Hey, now. I happen to like annoying drunk jackassery. I'd probably be too busy giggling to chew you out, but the kissing is certainly likely.

[ She's an affectionate drunk, to no one's shock. Most other times too, as exemplified when her fingers curl to stroke his tail when it wraps her arm up. ]

Me? What'd I do? [ Gently joking. ]

[retirementsnotsopeachy]

Yeeeah...but you've also made it clear you REALLY like that particular booze. Anyway.

[He pauses for just a moment.]

So i heard that you may have taken a certain comment I made early on in our friendship as me pointing out the real you. Which isn't even a little bit what I was saying, soooooooo...thoughts?

[sangreine]

I'm not sure what my liking the booze has to do with liking you. I can multitask.

[ She huffs. Displeased, but not with Wukong, since she stays right where she is. ]

I asked him to leave it alone. But that's neither here nor there.

Maybe it wasn't what you intended to say, but it's what I know. And what I have to believe. If I let myself think I can relax, get complacent, I could go out of control again.

Continuing to believe that I need to keep a tight hold on my self-control is important. The stakes are too high not to. I don't hesitate to fight or even kill when I'm myself and there's no other choice, but another senseless massacre just isn't worth it. Maybe it's bad for my self-esteem but that's nothing when measured against the potential consequences.

So I'm asking you to leave it alone, too. Please.

[retirementsnotsopeachy]

I would, but that actually goes against the fact that I agreed to mentor you on ways to help with that. And you're being a bit MK by focusing on the negative implications.

[He smiles.]

I'm not asking you to not consider the danger, or pretend it's not there. I've killed more than my fair share of people, mortals and demons alike for as little as expecting me to be shaken down but not actually attacking me. Barely any of them were any threat to me, so almost none of them were an instance of there was no other way.

Do you think that means it's just who I am and I could just do it again it I let my guard slip and stop thinking about it? Is it just how MK is, the weremonkey just showing him what his natural monkey form is like?

[It's a loaded question, but not in the sense that he'll judge her for it. But no matter how she answers it'll be telling.]

[sangreine]

And maybe after I get better control, I'll feel differently. I'm open to that... I'd love for it to be true. Right now, it just isn't.

I'm not sure those are analogous examples. You made bad choices out of ignorance or what have you, and you'd do differently now, but they were still choices. You weren't unable to decide for yourself. When I'm out of control, there aren't even thoughts in my head. It's not selfishness or impulsivity, it's a frenzy that I couldn't stop if I wanted to... if I even had wants.

And with MK, the weremonkey is a curse. Something inflicted on him. My situation is that I have these predatory instincts always whispering to me. Telling me to dominate and destroy everything around me. I hate it, but it's part of me. With me, it's not an altering of who or what I am, it's removal of my control over the dark impulses.

I don't really know what MK's natural monkey form is like, but has he ever slaughtered an entire city, one by one? Stopped to hack at the corpses just to inflict more torment on them? I don't think he has, from all he's said. So it's not the same.

...That's what makes me think your training could work, because it's strengthening control that is already there, just not strongly enough. I don't think the impulses will ever be gone, there will just be less danger that they'll be able to take over.

[retirementsnotsopeachy]

That's splitting hairs a bit. I did it because I had a short fuse and I was strong enough to do it, or just because I was insulted. I could have chosen differently, but I chose violence and in one case was willing to bring the body to the family that missed him, where I was staying as a guest, because "Hey, yeah. I saw your kid. He was a bandit, but you can have him to bury". And I've known plenty of demons who'd do what you're describing.

It's not that far off of MK's fear in his case. He's literally afraid that he's a harbinger of chaos who will have a legacy far more destructive than anything I ever got up to. And when he last turned, he almost forgot to hold back which almost destroyed to world. So the concept is the same at its most basic.

So it's still a relevant question since we're both fully capable of terrible things and the reason behind it doesn't matter to the people who have to deal with it.